A Very Sad Day Indeed

This morning was very different.  We have been close to Scout for several days, seeing him slowly fail.  This morning, he was huddled up near the fireplace, and for the third day, he could not walk.  As usual, he was a happy boy, but there was something different in his eyes.  He did not understand why he could no longer walk.

He watched everything going on around him, but could not even get up to greet his friends.

Scout was fifty pounds of love in one nig hairy package!  We called our handyman, Tom, and asked him to help get Scout to the van so we could go to the vet.

At 10:00 am, Tom arrived, and without a whimper, Scout recognized him and went into his arms for the journey to the van.

We went to the vet, and after a lengthy discussion about options, the doctor agreed with our decision to let go.  He was too good a baby to live deaf, partially blind, confused, and unable to walk.

He was taked into the back where a cheter was inserted into him arm and then he came back out with us for his last visit.

Scout was well known and everybody loved him at first sight

We talked to him for quite a while and brought “Moosey” to be with him.  Mary got Moosey the day Scout came from the adoption agency.  He carried Moosey around for over ten years, never hurting him, and now Moosey sits on our fireplace mantle looking out into the room for his friend.

The last goodbye!

He was happy until the end.  He was such a dear friend and loving creature.

 

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water, and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.

The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. 

Suddenly, he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again.

The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together….

Author unknown…

The rest of the day was somber.  We had lunch at home courtesy of Dianne, who came to console us with burgers and fries.  We then went to the doctor and finally to the American Legion for a glass of wine.

Returning home to an empty house was difficult after our own official greeter was not there to wiggle his tail and say hello and “Where were you?”.

We visited Jeff for a bit, tried to watch a movie, and gave up, going to bed at 9:00 pm, hoping the sadness would get easier.

 

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Get ‘Er Fixed!

Our son, Joe, came over this morning to breathe new life into the overhead bathroom exhaust fan and heater since I no longer do ladders!   I went to YouTube and have the video on how to replace the part.

It was easy to replace!

 

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The Holiday Season Has Begun!!

We went to Roger’s Gardens!

Halloween is only six weeks and a trip to the Caribbean away, so we thought we would start early when the selections are best!

Robin stayed overnight last night and decided to go to Roger’s Gardens to start the holiday season, perhaps a wee bit early?

This year, it was “The Midnight Market.”

We arrived about 30 minutes after Rogers opened and were surprised that it was not crowded.  As soon as I got there, I was looking for my necks victim.

Have you ever been kissed by a vampire? It’s a pain in the neck!

The Wal-Mart Greeter was at Roger’s this morning.

The bench was wet, but since I had on jeans, I dried my spot with the old tush!

I had a thought,  “Ghosts are terrible liars. You can see right through them.”

After a good walk in the nursery, we had lunch at The Farmhouse.  Their food is quite eclectic.  We killed off a boggle of chardonnary before departing for home via the 73 and 55 freeways.

Did you hear about the pumpkin that nearly drowned? It was saved by the life-gourd.

Upon returning home, Robin left for Corona, and we spent the rest of the day binge-watching movies.  My femoral artery may be bleeding just a bit, so I needed to stay off my feet.

We crashed around 10:15 pm.

Mary went out for a quick spin on her new broom!

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To The Movies!

The day started COLD as the overhead bathroom heater went south.  I called our handyman, and he came over, got the cover off, and gave me the part number.  I dialed into Amazon, and the replacement part will arrive on Thursday.  Then I will call Joe, or my son, to work his magic. I am not allowed to be on ladders anymore because of my age.

DOA

We messed around most of the day.  Maria came over and dropped off Irene’s gold clubs, and we visited for a while.  Robin stopped by before her hair appointment.  We will pick her up at 3:15 to go to the movies, the Downton Abbey movie, here we come.

Great movie, and now we are in the 1930s

We decided to go to King’s Fish House for dinner and had a wonderful dinner, complete with a bottle of wine!

Paul did fish soup

Robin kept to her diet and ate shrimp!

Everything was wonderful!

Robin captured a picture of us!

We were so happy to be out and about!

By the time we got home, it was 9:00 pm, and we crashed HARD!  Tomorrow, we begin to celebrate Halloween!

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I Escaped The House Today!

We got up, and Mary did the morning groin check, and I was leaking every so slightly on the right side.  It was not significant enough to worry about, so we proceeded with the morning shower and a new gauze covering.

We walked to the garden as I wanted to see the pumpkin plant and talk to it.

Picking time; we loaded a large box with fresh veggies

The garden is beginning to show wear, summer is starting to end, and Fall will be here soon.

We still have 500 tomatoes on the vines!

The overhangs need some trimming, or we will have to lean over to get to the back of the garden!

We found some hidden treasures up in the overheads!  There were several LARGE tomatoes in hiding.

Off to the Elks Lodge for Girls’ Night Out.  We had great fun and gave away a big bunch of veggies!

Bill and Sue joined us today!

Linda was here with her bonnet of the day!

Lookin’ good, Linda!

George was in rare form; we laughed the whole time!

We are getting old; we shared our latest operations.

I ordered a steak, but was surprised!

Mary and I were asked on several occasions if we would get a room!  I wonder why??

THE SMOOOOOOCH!

Guess what she whispered in my ear?    Time to go home!

I cannot wait for the packages to arrive!

Mary’s new T-shirts

We got the pictures from Bob and Donna from their trip to Turnin.

We watched three episodes of “Virgin River” before retiring.

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I Am Tired Of Resting!

The day started slowly and kept going slower and slower.   I didn’t even make it to he garden.  As Mary says, “I ‘m keeping him on a tight leash”.

Mary’s wrist was swollen pretty badly after her fall, and not wanting to leave me alone, she called Dianne, who ran to the store and got Mary a wrist brace.  It’s good to have good friends.  We sent Dianne home with a basket of garden goodies.

Mary is considering a new acquisition, a t-shirt to go with my shirt that says “Trophy Husband”.

The rest of the day, Mary worked around the house, and I stayed close to the computer, trying to prepare for the last batch of Europe-O-Grams from Bob and Donna.

We both took long naps in the afternoon, and I made tea for us to have on the patio.  The weather was perfect with a slight breeze.  We actually put a small blanket on our shoulders around 7:00 pm.

Then we hit the kitchen and made FRESH bruschetta using items we just picked from the garden.  We cut up an entire load of French baguettes.  We then called Jeff, and we tootled over to Jeff’s house with two glasses of wine, and he had a post-dinner snack!

We returned home to watch TV before going to bed.  We started the series FUBAR with Arnie, and that was fun.

 

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Paul! Don’t Be A Cutup!!

Easy for Mary To Say!!

Today is the day of the procedure, and I was not allowed to have anything but a teaspoon of water to take my morning pills.  Have you ever tried to take four pounds of pills with a teaspoon of water?

Everything is going well until the phone rings, and it is the doctor’s office saying they still haven’t received insurance approval.  I knew the operating/procedure was going for retail at $131,300.  Needless to say, we were out of bed dialing the doctor’s office and insurance company for the next two hours.   I thought for a while I would have to sell Scout and my firstborn (I could deal with the firstborn, but not Scout!)

It turns out the claim was approved, but apparently faxed to the incorrect FAX number.  We got everything fixed by 10:00 am, just two hours before check-in!  Good news, we can keep Scout.

I was dressed for the occasion.

We got checked in at noon, and we got called backstage a few minutes later.  Mary helped me get ready, and at 2:45 I was under.  Joe came and stayed with Mary for a long time.

Oops!  Wrong jammies!

Transportation came to get me, and we were off.  Mary walked as far as the OR.

I am ready!

I greeted the doctors with a big smile and a lot of jokes and with a BP of 130/82; not too bad for guy 80 years old facing surgery!

Counting down from 100…

As the anesthesia was taking its effect, I heard the doctors talking!

Anesthesia works by interrupting or altering the transmission of nerve signals throughout the body, though the specific mechanisms differ depending on the type.  General anesthesia affects the brain to cause unconsciousness, while local and regional anesthesia target specific nerves to numb a particular area.

How general anesthesia works

General anesthesia is a drug-induced, reversible coma that induces unconsciousness, amnesia, and immobility.  During the procedure, an anesthesiologist continuously administers medication, often a combination of intravenous (IV) drugs and inhaled gases.

I overheard some of the staff talking!

I was under for about two hours, and during that time, I got two catheters inserted, and the doctor did his thing.

After I came out, I was also a little worried as they didn’t seem to know what to do with the extra parts.

This situation was worrisome!

Mary said the doctor came to visit her and that I was A-OK.  Mary then came into recovery and took GREAT care of me.  She gave me water and ordered my dinner.  The food was good, but I was also VERY hungry.

At 9:30 pm, it was decided I could go home, so Mary got the car (after falling in the parking lot).

We made it home by 10:00 pm, at which time I went to bed with Mary, checking for leaks every few minutes.  I slept like a baby!

Side note:  Again, I am blessed to have Mary in my life as she went and did more than the call of duty.  She was my angel!

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We Preppin’

When I woke up, I was sure it was Sunday, but after consultation with the calendar, I gave in and declared it Monday.   We got ready to go to the hospital check-in, where we registered and got an EKG, plus some blood tests!  I studied last night and passed the blood test with frying colors.

We arrived at the St. Joseph’s facility at 11:15 am, and we were out in less than 30 minutes.  PS: I passed the test!   The EKG machine did not sound the alarm this time, so all is good.

We had lunch at Benji’s and then went to Polly’s Pies to get dessert for our neighbor Jeff.

The rest of the day, we just messed around the house.  Mary fixed a small dinner at 9:00 pm, as I cannot eat after midnight (the operation is scheduled for tomorrow at noon).

We watched “The Expendables 1, 2, and 3”.

At midnight we went to bed!

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Nothing On Sunday!

Today was a big ZERO.  We worked around the house but didn’t leave the premises.  Mary fixed a magnificent “Egg McMommy,” and after that, we watched Dalton Abbey and did some washing.

In the afternoon, I crashed for three hours, still trying to wear off the last procedure.

I worked on Donna and Bob’s vacation pictures from today.  We will be happy to see them again!!

We visited Jeff and came home to crash!

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Relax, Unwind, Eat, Dance!

Robin stayed the night, and we spent the morning catching up with everything.  We called Colleen, and all is well on the East Coast.  Robin took off around 11:00 am, and we went to the Post Office (to mail our quarterly taxes) and then shopped for a while before returning home.

We called Lexus and then AAA, and another technician came out; this time it was a young man who knew his stuff.  He replaced the battery, and we are up and running again.

Replacement needed!

In the afternoon, Mary did some chores, and I checked for light leaks in my eyes by taking a two-hour nap.  I am getting ready for next week’s operation.

I put together some photos of yesterday’s Celebration of Life for Irene.

In the afternoon, we watched some TV and then got ready to go to the Elks to hear Jerome Dean sing and have dinner.

They had oysters on the menu, and Iris’s eyes lit up like a Christmas tree!  Mary and I ordered two dozen.  They disappeared instantly.

Why don’t oysters ever share their pearls?  Because they’re a little shellfish.

Iris finished off two dozen oysters!

Jerome Dean was great tonight.  We played a waltz, and we were up and moving.  Bill and Sandee took to the floor also!

Bill and Sandee are dancing.

After the dust had settled, we headed for home.

Good night, yard!

We crashed as soon as we got home!

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